What Makes Good Sex?
“I take sex a lot more seriously now because I believe it connects you with everything in a way I wasn’t aware of before.”
What is it that makes sex good? Is it his penis size? The thrill of a hookup? Or some taboo sexual act? The answer may surprise you!
Whether you’re married, playing solo, or with multiple partners, there are some key practices and mindset shifts that will go a long way to improve your sex life starting today.
In this episode, I’m sharing what to do if you’re in a sexless marriage, why the orgasm gap exists and what we can do about it, creative ways to use technology to improve your sex life, and how to manage your sexpectations.
Time to create awareness, reflect, and learn about yourself. Here we go!
Here's what we cover:
Busting myths about what makes sex good
What to do if you’re in a sexless marriage
Creative ways to use technology to improve your sex life
How to manage your sexpectations
What every new parent needs to know about sex
The forgotten link between sex and spirituality
We want sex that is connected, intimate, and fulfilling. Hopefully, this episode has helped you understand how complicated it is from an evolutionary, biological, psychological, societal, economic, as well as a political perspective.
Share your thoughts in the comments or DM me. There’s so much more to come. See you next time, darlings!
Links & Mentioned Resources
NYT article: Why Gen X Women Are Having the Best Sex of Their Lives
Becoming Cliterate (book)
The Erotic Mind (book)
Transcendent Sex (book)
The Good Enough Sex Model for couple sexual satisfaction
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More about the Sex, Tech & Spirituality Podcast
Ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about sex and the future of intimacy? The Sex, Tech, & Spirituality Podcast is your go-to space for unfiltered, thought-provoking conversations that challenge taboos, decode emerging trends, and reconnect sexuality with spirituality.
Hosted by Kaamna Bhojwani—a certified sexologist, media personality, and thought leader—this podcast gives you the tools and insights to understand your own intimacy, navigate the impact of rapidly evolving technology, and heal from the weight of sexual shame.
By tuning in, you'll gain clarity on complex issues like sexless marriages and infidelity, as well as the impact of AI companions and smart sex toys on human relationships. You'll also gain a fresh perspective on how ancient spiritual wisdom and cutting-edge technology weave together to create our sexual ethos. Finally, you'll benefit from Kaamna's extensive expertise, drawing from her multiple psychology degrees, including a Master’s in Spiritual Psychology from Columbia University and years of experience coaching clients on intimacy, connection, and personal growth.
Whether you’re curious about the future of sex or the past, this podcast is here to empower, educate, and inspire. Join Kaamna on this transformative journey—and discover a world of intimacy you never thought possible.
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