Sex & Aging: What (Other) Doctors Won’t Tell You with Dr. Uloko

Sex isn’t an on-off switch. It’s a system.
— Dr. Uloko

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What if aging wasn’t the end of desire, but the deepening of it?

Aging is a part of life, but what does it mean for our sexual wellness and vitality? Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Sex, Tech, & Spirituality, where we dive deep into the connection between sex and aging. I’m sitting down with Doctor Maria Uloko, a board-certified urologist and the visionary behind VULVA AI. Together, we explore how we can redefine aging, embrace sexual health, and challenge societal norms. Keywords like sex and aging, sexual wellness, and cultural views on sexuality drive the heart of this discussion.

This isn’t just another medical chat. It’s a reclamation.

A remembering.

A reckoning with the systems that told us pleasure has an expiration date.

This episode is for you if you're curious about maintaining your sexual vitality beyond the confines of age, grappling with cultural expectations about aging and sexuality, or seeking a more informed, compassionate approach to sexual wellness. If you're someone who has felt dismissed by your doctor, betrayed by your body, or silenced by culture—this episode is your permission slip. To feel. To ask. To desire. To be whole, at every stage of life.

Here's what we cover:

  • The silent cultural narratives that shame sex after a certain age

  • How arousal evolves—and how to meet it with curiosity instead of fear

  • The power of mindset in reawakening desire

  • Hormone therapy, personalized care, and what actually works

  • Why tech like VULVA AI might just be the future of sexual healing

  • And how wisdom, experience, and self-knowledge can make pleasure even richer

Aging and sexuality are not mutually exclusive. Recognizing the beauty of wisdom, self-awareness, and pleasure as you age is key to a fulfilling sex life. So, what would it look like to age with sensual power instead of shame? Subscribe for more conversations where the sacred and the scientific meet. And if something stirred within you today—share it. We’re listening.

More About Dr Maria Uloko

Dr. Uloko is a board-certified urologist, an international award-winning researcher, and the founder of VULVAi, an AI-powered platform transforming how vulvovaginal conditions are diagnosed and understood. Known for her dynamic presence at the intersection of science, sexual health, and advocacy, she’s one of the few global experts offering holistic, inclusive care for all genders. Her research has redefined how we understand the clitoris and chronic pelvic pain, earning international recognition. With a deep commitment to pleasure-centered, evidence-based care, Dr. Uloko is dismantling medical gaslighting and empowering patients with the tools to advocate for themselves.


Links & Mentioned Resources

The Menopause Society

International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health

The American Urological Association

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